Death

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I want to start off this post by making a quick mention on why I chose to write about this topic today. 

In the month of December, I wrote a blog post about a person who saved a part of me, or glued it back, when I really needed it, and she probably didn’t know the impact she had on my life just for that one day, but she did more than she could ever imagine in just afternoon of her life. 

She was an angel sent by whoever sends them to us, and she is one of the most beautiful souls which I’ve met on this planet.

This soul is among all of us now, in a place where hurt is not a thing, and she is free from all illness and suffering. 

On her way to her next life.

May her soul Rest In Peace. 

I want to make this post, dedicating it to her. 

She will never see it, unfortunately…

But she will know I did it. 

She is someone who the world needed to have, and left a piece of her wherever she went and to whoever she talked to. 

An angel, for me. 

In her new world, and in ours. 

Previously, I wrote about how and what she taught me, and now I would like to mention what her leaving this world in the physical form, has made me think and reflect – in other words, my vision on death. I got the notice she passed by this morning and was shocked. I didn’t know what to do, say, think, anythings. 

It’s gone. 

You won’t be able to see her ever again or have a conversation with her.

It’s over. 

She is done with her mission here. 

Her soul accomplished everything she had to. 

Congratulations to her. She did it. 

But it’s over. Bye.

She was not a direct relative of mine, but she did a big impact in me. 

I started thinking on how I should’ve maybe reached out more to her. 

Maybe send her that message I sometimes neglected myself to do so. 

Just… taking her more into consideration in my life, maybe. 

I don’t know. 

I was so confused… and I did feel sad… but there was something in me that was in peace as well…

Here is were I thought… ‘why are we so scared of death?’, ‘why do we think about it as something terrible and sad?’

I don’t mean to say there is no reason for one to be sad when a person we care about dies, but honestly… death is just as simple as a transformation. 

That’s it. 

It’s selfish thinking you are getting someone or something for life. 

You won’t. 

Death is natural, and it happens to everyone and everything. 

There are people who are alive but don’t live. 

There are people living which don’t seem alive.

At times, death seems unfair. 

Takes the best ones away from us when we least expect it.

Now, why I think we are scared if death?

Because weldon’t know what’s after. 

We are always afraid of what we don’t know. 

Death, from the outside seems as an eternal sleep.

Closing your eyes and never waking up. 

It is basically this, in the physical form,

But it doesn’t stop there. 

Death is a part of our life. 

Without death, we wouldn’t live.

And death is a process of transformation in every way.

Your spirit is finally freed from that cage. 

The body. 

It finally goes back home and rests, before its next adventure. 

Its a place of eternal bliss and peace.

No ‘wrong’ exists there.

This is a human concept. 

Human concepts do no enter this realm.

It’s the best place a soul can be. 

There are many who think there is nothing after death, or that you go ‘to heaven or to hell’. 

I can’t say any of these are true or not, because I haven’t had the experience – yet – (lol).

Here is what I think on those two – I respect all of your opinions and beliefs on life after life and/or death, but here is my unnecessary opinion because.. you know.. it’s a blog… from my thoughts… nothing personal on you!

‘Nothing happens, you just die and that’s it.’ – For real?! Like… you believe you ONLY have a human body and there is nothing beyond it? like… idk… from my point of view, it’s limiting your human experience to just the body… and I personally don’t believe that is how we function as humans but yeah… you do you, I’ll do me 🙂 <3

‘Heaven and hell’ idea – I used to believe this, but I think this is something we humans created – again – by dividing, good, bad, black, white, a, b, yes, no, 1, 2, you know? Just dividing everything into concepts so we understand, and it isn’t necessarily like this for me. We are. Good and bad, is just something we measure out of how we understand the emotions we feel towards an event, situation, person, etc. So I just like to think, we go to a place to rest. Not heaven or hell, just space. A space we don’t know and/or understand. Not angels and devils, just it. No good or bad, just it. 

Second question, why do we think about it as something bad and horrible?

I mean yes,

It is sad and devastating knowing someone is gone from your life. 

You won’t smell them again, 

Talk to them, 

Listen to their voice, 

Laugh at something they said, 

Their laugh is gone,

Their physical presence is gone. 

But that’s it !

It’s just the physical.

In the energetic and spiritual, they are never gone.

You can always talk to them.

If you think about them, they will always be there,

They are in no pain, and they did everything they once were sent to achieve to this planet.

Their mission is complete.

They didn’t have more to do in this planet. 

Everything happens because of something, and for something else to happen. 

You officially have the most beautiful angel or spirit taking care of you.

They look up for you and will always be proud and supportive on your life on earth after their physical part away.

You might find each other in another life!

In this one, they completed their journey.

Death is a transformation for the soul. 

It’s transcending.

Leveling up.

Working up on the karma, shadow and light work from this one, on the way to the next.

People and things need to live. 

The same way we live temporarily, we die temporarily in different realms. 

Best we can do, is never forget, embrace, love them as we knew them, and from time to time, maybe talk to them a bit 🙂 <3.

And this should make us think on different things, in my opinion. 

1. We are so scared to say things these days. As a society. We have been, many of us, through childhood, that expressing one’s emotions is wrong, bad, and you ‘can’t do it everywhere or with everyone’.
   Don’t cry – they say to the boys.
   And I don’t get the idea behind this. We all experience emotions in one way or another. Emotions are the most natural thing in the world! Just like bodies! (That’s another topic, but anyway).
   This might sound cliché, but we must say the things to the ones we love or whoever while we can! Because we don’t. We are so used to postponing things, because we don’t think the things that we do will be the last. We always have an image of the next time. Seems as if we forget, it is possible for us to not have a next time.
   We’ve normalized it so much, we don’t make things as if they were the last, and we end up taking so many things for granted or regret not living through things presently in the past. AND IT SUCKS.
   WHY IS NOBODY SAYING ANYTHING ABOUT THIS! OPEN UP YOUR EYES.
2. Life passes in front of us every single day. Literally. Every second, moment, millisecond, your entire life is passing through your eyes. Make something remarkable out of it. 
3. Realize how temporary and fleeting everything is. 
4. Know that by you still being here, is because you have a mission to acomplish, and you and only you have been sent to do that specific thing!
5. Think of life as the most valuable asset you have and observe its fragility up against your eyes. 
6. Death = transformation. It hurts to watch physically, but for this person’s soul, they’ve been freed. They have never been better…

• If anyone reading is going through a grief process and needs someone to talk to, comments and social media are always an open for you to communicate !!
• You are not alone kid!
  

Grazynka <3.

Happy you transformed yourself, enjoy your journey!

Blessed for having you come my way in this lifetime and timeline. 

Buzaki z planety Ziemia.

Sending you love and light.

Milena.